Because in a world of greed and upcharges, compassion is revolutionary.
Letās get one thing straight: Iām not easily impressedāespecially not by people in lab coats or behind reception desks with billing codes dancing in their eyes. But every once in a while, someone in the medical field reminds me that this world isnāt entirely broken. That there are still healers who care more about helping than profiting.
𦷠My Dentist
Heās been taking care of me since I was a kid. No pressure. No guilt trips. No unnecessary procedures. If itās not urgent, he says so. If he can cut a deal, he does. When times were tough, he made payments work and never made me feel like a burden.
Compare that to the dentist I tried in Traverse City: thousands of dollars later, I had white fillings I didnāt ask for, a crowned tooth that didnāt need crowning, and a wallet crying in the parking lot. I crawled back to my original dentist like he was my long-lost soulmateābecause he is.
𦓠My Chiropractor

I found him when I was pregnant and desperate for relief. My old chiropractor treated me like a wrestling opponent; I needed someone gentle, especially with a baby on board. This man listens, adjusts carefully, and genuinely cares. When my insurance capped my visits, he told me to keep coming anyway because he didnāt want me in pain. No pressure. No manipulation. Just a good person doing good work.
š§ My Therapist
My last therapist vanished the moment my insurance did. My current one did the oppositeānegotiated the lowest possible out-of-pocket rate so I could keep going. Because mental health doesnāt wait for a better deductible. Because they saw me as a person, not a billing code. Because they actually care.
Special Mentions: My OB & PCP in Traverse City
After I lost my baby, my OB looked me in the eye and said, āWeāll get you pregnant.ā She handed me Femara that same day and gave me hope when I was drowning in grief.
And when my regular doctor went on maternity leave, her fill-in listened to my whole messy situation, paused, and said flatly, āMen suck.ā Then she wrote the prescription I needed. It was blunt. It was perfect.
Closing Thoughts
Itās easy to be bitter about the systemāand most days, I still am. But these providers? Theyāre the rare spells that work. The ones that remind me humanity isnāt extinct.
To every doctor, therapist, and healer who puts care before cash: you are the good kind of magic. And I see you.

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